How and why did they choose NCEFT were the big questions. They found NCEFT through PATH and AHA. Based on all the reviews they read about us and other places is why they chose NCEFT out of the entire world! This is a pretty big deal. For those of you that don’t know, there are hundreds of PATH centers all over the world! Needless to say, we were very honored they chose us. They also liked our website the best as well.
Be Worthy.
We used to lay sheepskin blankets over our horses’ backs, protecting patients’ gastrostomy tubes from catching on the nappy felt pads. We learned to work with G-tubes, tracheostomy tubes, AFOs, and hearing aids, and at some point our sense of normal was flipped on its head. Looking past the medical baggage we would see a two-year old learning to tell her horse to go and stop, or a pair of teenagers talking movies while they warmed-up their horses for a group lesson. Mundane and ordinary, our conversations rarely touched on their so-called disability. But every now and then an event would occur to shatter these attempts at normalization, and all too quickly we’re faced with a truth both sharp and dangerous.
“I had a clean MRI.” She’s a little peanut of child fresh from her day at summer camp, still wearing the hand written name tag proclaiming her assignment to the orange group. She refuses to be called Miss or Princess, she’s just herself and you better remember it. “Whatever happens, I know it’ll be okay because I’m not going to die.” She delivers these statements while clipping oversized ladybug clothespins to her horse’s mane, casually throwing it out there as if we’d asked her favorite ice cream. You realize despite the headband and floral appliquéd shirt this is not a child, this is a person who is grappling with the very adult reality of life and its fragility.
Working with a survivor is akin to a crucible, an experience that acts to distill you into your most pure self. You want to be the very best person you can be, to do everything within your power to be worthy of the person in front of you. You stop acting and start feeling. Smiles aren’t forced, laughter isn’t faked. For the next 30 minutes you give all of yourself. The session inevitably comes to end, she dismounts, goodbyes are exchanged, and the horse is led back to its stall. The saturated reality of life and death begins to fade, replaced with something softer.
Each week isn’t an epiphany. But each week we come a little closer to being worthy.
DRIVE for a New Carriage Horse
Just over a year ago, we lost a horse who epitomized the phrase “Gentle Giant.” Jet black and standing 6 feet at his shoulder, Sunny the Percheron was the foundation of NCEFT’s therapeutic driving program. His sudden passing came just months after The Order of St. John, Knights Hospitaller donated the handicapped accessible carriage that Sunny so steadily pulled. Without Sunny, staff were left with no choice to but to suspend the driving program.
For some of our patients, therapeutic driving is the only opportunity they have to interact with horses. Faced with physical, sensory, or emotional disabilities that prevent them from riding, they can learn to control a horse from our specially adapted carriage. The carriage’s automatic lift allows students to do all this without ever leaving their wheelchair, eliminating difficult or uncomfortable transitions from one chair to another. Students range from children to veterans, and between the instructor, patient, and other associated staff or aides, the carriage’s four seats are always packed. It takes a certain kind of horse to pull such precious cargo, and that horse is personified by the Percheron.
Bonnie, NCEFT’s therapeutic driving instructor, has been scouring the country for another horse who fits the impossibly high standard set by Sunny. Quiet, hard-working, patient, strong, careful, generous, you name the positive adjective and there’s a good chance it’s a requirement of a therapy horse. Thanks to Bonnie’s hard work, we’ve found a couple of prospects who show promise. Now comes the equally hard part of raising the funds to get one of these old souls to California and get our students back in the driver’s seat.
NCEFT is launching a ‘DRIVE’ to purchase the new horse and ship him to our facility in Woodside, CA. Upon his arrival he’ll undergo the training necessary to step into Sunny’s colossal shoes and settle into his new life as an equine therapist. After adding up the cost of purchasing, shipping, and training the new horse, we estimate we’re going to have to raise $10,000 to make this dream a reality. A generous donor has offered a matching grant of $5000, and we’re asking for your help in raising the other half.
Join the ‘DRIVE’ with your contribution and recruit friends, family, and coworkers to donate to the cause in your name. Whomever raises the most will win the opportunity to go for a special carriage ride with the very horse they helped purchase.
Whether you love horses, support people with special needs, assist wounded veterans, or support animal-facilitated therapy, your donation, regardless of size, will make a difference in the lives of countless individuals.
Moms Who Make Our Lives…
We wave to her with our left hand, right hand, sometimes even both hands. We pick her dusty stalks of lavender from the sensory trail and climb onto our knees to grab her handfuls of star-shaped leaves from the Japanese maple. We let her put our helmet on and listen when she says to hold her hand, even though there’s a cat, two donkeys, and a spider web more deserving of our attention. She’s our Mom and this week we tell her thanks.
We don’t always make it easy on her. There’ve been weeks where we spend the first 15 minutes of our half-hour session refusing to come out of the bathroom, insisting that as a little boy of 9 we are perfectly capable of going by ourselves. Or the days where we channel our inner Olympian and make a mad dash for the nearest hooved animal, Mom calmly, or not so calmly, telling us to freeze.
But then there are the days where we do her proud. We follow directions, keep our hands to ourselves, and remember to say please. We use our iPad to choose between a ball or ring, and don’t circumvent the activity by instead asking for a green M&M. The answer is more often yes than no, and we remember to get a sticker not only for ourselves, but for our little sister as well.
We want to take this opportunity to tell all of our Moms, whether they’re volunteers, patients’ parents, fellow staffers, or just fans, how much we love them. Even if we can’t always find the right way to say it, know that we think you’re pretty great. Whether we get you chocolate or make you breakfast in bed, buy you a dozen roses or present you with a handful of rosemary, know that we’re thinking of you and the many ways you make our lives wonderful.
Thanks team!
At the end of every session each patient or student is asked to thank their team. Some kids need to be reminded to make eye contact, others are coached to use each person’s name, and some simply touch their fingers to their chin, signing their thanks. However they do it, the whole “team” is acknowledged. We try not to label anyone disparately, because in doing so we would fail to acknowledge just how many roles each person plays in a given therapy session.
Perhaps the most versatile actor is the volunteer. Calling them a sidewalker, barn aide, event helper, or facilities assistant is too limiting. Every day tens of people come to NCEFT to give their time to those who need help, and in doing so, they themselves often leave feeling nourished. They fill envelopes with stickers and watch a little girl’s face light up when she visits the mailbox and finds the perfect flower to stick on her helmet (one already littered with felted-butterflies and silver-edged hearts). They show up early to swap stories with wounded Vietnam veterans and stay late to put away the hula hoops after interactive vaulting. And despite the drool, the endless rounds of “Wheels on the Bus”, and the need to occasionally dodge an errant rubber ball, these volunteers keep coming back week after week.
With National Volunteer Appreciation week drawing to a close, the staff at NCEFT would like to take a moment to thank everyone who donates their time to make our work possible. Without your tireless support and enthusiasm each week we’d be entirely unable to make such a positive impact in the lives of so many. Sometimes we get caught up in our own tasks and struggle to find the time for the many wonderful volunteers who come through the facility, but know this, not a second goes by that we don’t feel deeply grateful for your presence. You are part of our team and though there is no “I” in team, we’re glad there’s a “U” in volunteer!
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